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Finally break toxic cycles, reclaim your power, and create the relationship you actually want.

The Real Reason You Keep Having the Same Arguments

And how to finally break the cycle for good

Sarah Gorman teaching Unmask Method

I'm going to share a secret with you. It's something I've discovered from exploring the depths of my own intimacy, from supporting friends through their wildest relational drama, and from working with hundreds—maybe thousands—of individuals and couples who want more than surface-level connection.

Every single relationship conflict you have boils down to just five core patterns. Five soul wounds. When you learn to spot which part of you is getting triggered, and give that part the care it's been craving, everything changes. Fights lose their edge. Old wounds stop running the show. The internal noise quiets down. Suddenly, what used to be a blowout is just a simple conversation—two people with different values, working it out like grownups.

This is the real work of transformation. Not just healing your pain, but stepping into radical self-command. You become the kind of person who can meet anything with clarity, honesty, and a wild, grounded heart. You stop chasing "fixes" and start living as the version of you who can handle whatever life (or love) throws at you.

If you're ready to break the cycle, reclaim your power, and create the kind of connection most people only dream about, you're in the right place.

Next group cohort begins January 1. All sessions recorded for your growth.
You’ve tried all the tools, but nothing sticks? Here’s the truth: when you learn to spot and heal the five patterns running your relationships, everything changes. It’s not about fixing yourself...it’s about finally understanding what’s running the show and reclaiming your power.
Hear what real people are saying about The Unmask Method:
“If you have a chance to encounter this being in your path and have a chance to work with them, I really cannot encourage and recommend that you take the dive more wholeheartedly.”

Ok, are you ready to learn the secret?

These 5 wounds are quietly destroying your relationships—again and again. Name them, and everything changes.
Rejection
The wound of being cast out or made to feel “too much” or “not enough.” You hide your truth and fear being truly seen.
Reclaim: Radical self-acceptance and true belonging.
Abandonment
The ache of being left behind. You cling, over-give, or withdraw, always bracing for loss.
Reclaim: Inner security and the capacity for real love.
Humiliation
The pain of being shamed for your needs or desires. You shrink or hide your true self.
Reclaim: Dignity and joyful self-expression.
Betrayal
The sting of broken trust. You struggle to let go of control or trust others.
Reclaim: True trust and the courage to lead.
Injustice
The wound of being treated unfairly or never feeling “good enough.” You armor up or numb out.
Reclaim: Authentic power and emotional freedom.
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Connection Support

What’s Included

+ 3 private 1:1 focus sessions included!
  • ✔ 7 live group sessions (Opening, 5 Soul Wounds, Closing Integration)
  • ✔ Guided soul wound explorations
  • ✔ Somatic practices & embodiment tools
  • ✔ Practical integration exercises
  • ✔ Private online support group
  • ✔ Session replays & lifetime access
  • ✔ The Wound Identification Workbook
  • ✔ The Conscious Reparenting Playbook
  • ✔ 30-day somatic exercise guide

What Makes The Unmask Method Different?

✷ Rooted in leading trauma and embodiment research
✷ Kink-aware, radically honest, and shame-free
✷ Group accountability for real, lasting change
Sarah Gorman teaching group

Meet Liliana

I’m Liliana Coventina, Marine Corps veteran, trauma-informed intimacy coach, and creator of The Unmask Method. My work is rooted in Lise Bourbeau’s soul wounds, somatic healing, and group transformation. I’ve helped hundreds break the cycle of pain and step into empowered relationships, leadership, and joy.

I believe healing is a bold, embodied act - and that when we do it together, we become unstoppable. If you’re ready to unmask your patterns and claim your true power, I’d be honored to guide you.

Sarah Gorman speaking

What Clients Are Saying

Looking back it actually makes so much sense to me why I felt called to work with you through the soul wounds. It really helped me refine my leadership skills in a way I wasn't even aware that I needed. I highly recommend this work with Liliana to literally anyone who feels called to it.
– Anna Mae LeBlanc
My experience after our work together has been nothing short of magical. I’m grateful for the work we did together and I feel much more skilled in being present with myself and the world around me.
– Anonymous
Working with Liliana helped me feel at home in my own body for the first time. I learned to welcome all parts of myself and transform shame into strength.
– Anonymous
I now know how to navigate difficult emotions and show up powerfully in the world. I have more confidence in relationships and feel truly integrated.
– Anonymous
Liliana has a gift for sacred space-holding that I think is actually rare in the coaching world. Their expertise and skills are solid, but what is truly special is the way they’re able to balance compassion with tough love, holding clients accountable to their desires and authenticity. I appreciate a coach willing to tell you the hard truth, but allow the truth to transmit from the heart.
– Desiree
Whenever I am in her field, she brings me to presence. Whatever is unsettled in my system, she asks a question or prompt that elicits my most authentic, true response. There's also this playfulness - this trickster energy - that allows me not to take myself too seriously. In every container, she brings forth what I most need to see, helps me take risks, have fun doing it, and step up to my edges. She's a powerhouse!
– Carina
This is for you if...
  • You’re ready to break repeating relationship patterns—no matter how deep they go.
  • You want real, lasting change—not just another “quick fix.”
  • You crave accountability, community, and being witnessed in your truth.
  • You’re open to trauma-informed, kink-aware, and somatic healing.
  • You’re willing to show up for yourself, even when it’s hard.
This isn’t for you if...
  • You want someone else to “fix” you or do the work for you.
  • You’re not willing to be honest—with yourself or others.
  • You’re looking for a purely intellectual or “talk therapy” approach.
  • You’re not open to group experiences or accountability.
  • You are currently in an unsafe or abusive environment (see resources below).

How The Unmask Method Works

💡
Opening Ceremony
Set intentions, ground your energy, and prepare to unmask.
1
Rejection
Mask: “I don’t need anyone.”
Reclaim: Radical self-acceptance and true belonging.
2
Betrayal
Mask: “I have to control everything.”
Reclaim: Trust, leadership, and the courage to let go.
3
Humiliation
Mask: “I must hide my needs and desires.”
Reclaim: Dignity, joyful self-expression, and healthy boundaries.
4
Abandonment
Mask: “If I cling, I won’t get hurt.”
Reclaim: Inner security, emotional resilience, and the capacity for real love.
5
Injustice
Mask: “I have to be perfect or tough to be safe.”
Reclaim: Authentic power, fairness, and emotional freedom.
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Closing Integration
Anchor your growth, celebrate your transformation, and integrate it for life.
Plus: Workbooks, Playbooks, Support Group, Lifetime Replays, and more—all included.

Pricing & Enrollment

Cyber Week Special – Until Dec 7
+ 3 private 1:1 focus sessions included!
Group Program
$777
(Reg. $1,111)
+ 3 private 1:1 focus sessions included!
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1:1 Private Journey
$1,111
(Reg. $3,333)
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Cohort begins January 1. Replays available for all sessions.
✔ 30-Day Integration Promise:
If you don’t love your experience after Session 1, get a full refund—no questions asked.

Frequently Asked Questions

▶ What if I can’t attend live?
All sessions are recorded and available for replay. You can still participate, ask questions, and receive support in the group even if you miss a live call.
▶ Is this for singles or couples?
Both! The Unmask Method is designed for individuals and couples who want to break old patterns and create new, empowered ways of relating.
▶ Do I have to share in the group?
Sharing is always encouraged but never required. Many find transformation simply by witnessing and being witnessed.
▶ Is this trauma therapy?
No. This is a trauma-informed coaching and group healing journey, not medical or psychiatric treatment. If you are in crisis or need therapy, please seek out a licensed professional.
▶ What if my environment isn’t safe?
Your safety is the top priority. If you are currently experiencing abuse, please seek support from the National Domestic Violence Hotline, RAINN, or other crisis resources before joining.

Still Have Questions?

Book a free intro call to see if The Unmask Method is right for you.
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